Safety Tips for Meeting Someone New in Person
Meeting people from the internet can be wonderful — and it pays to be careful. These practical safety tips help you meet new people with confidence.
By the MyHomieo Team2 min read
In short
- Meet in a public place and tell someone you trust where you’ll be.
- Take your time online first, and trust your instincts.
- Never send money or share sensitive information.
- You can always leave, cancel or say no.
Most people you meet through communities and apps are lovely. But no platform can fully check who someone is, so a few simple habits keep you safe. None of this is about being fearful — it’s about being prepared.
Before you meet
- Chat for a while first and notice whether the person is consistent and respectful.
- Look at their profile and photos and watch for stories that don’t add up.
- Video call before meeting if you can.
- Keep personal details such as your home address private.
Plan the meeting
- Choose a busy public place, during the day if possible.
- Get there and back by your own transport.
- Tell a friend or family member who you’re meeting, where and when.
- Keep your phone charged and share your live location with someone you trust.
During the meeting
- Keep an eye on your food and drink.
- Limit alcohol so that you stay alert.
- Trust your instincts — if something feels off, leave.
Red flags to watch for
- Asking for money, gift cards or financial help.
- Refusing to video call or meet in public.
- Pressuring you to move quickly or keep things secret.
- Aggressive or disrespectful messages.
Frequently asked questions
Is it safe to meet someone from an app or community?
It can be, with sensible precautions: meet in public, tell someone, take your time and trust your instincts.
Should I share my phone number straight away?
There’s no need. Chat on the platform first and share your number once you’re comfortable.
What should I do if someone makes me uncomfortable?
Leave, block them and report the behaviour. If you feel unsafe, contact local emergency services.
